(文/张馨月)
把简单的事情弄复杂是很痛苦的事，还是那句话，人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。
爱一个人，就真的希望他/她幸福快乐，如果他/她不幸福快乐，你跟他/她在一起自己也不会幸福快乐。如果他/她不配得到你的爱，在你离开之后，他/她会感到后悔并且得到一些爱的教训；如果他/她配得爱但他/她已有所爱，那就祝福他/她。因为真爱一个人，是会希望他/她得到快乐和幸福的！
瘦胖美丑都没关系，因为在爱你的人眼里就是独一无二的，为了那份爱，肯定会更加完美自己。
其实一个人爱不爱你，你都能体会得到的，跟着你的心走吧。爱也要学习的，好好学，学了就好好实践，到老了走不动时，想起来也会很快乐！
每个人都有优点,谁都喜欢优点,但只有真爱对方的人才会宽容对方的缺点,真爱上了是有点怕,但也许就是因“怕”，使两人之间才又多了兴奋的一层关系,让两人关系处于更活跃状态。
其实说到底恋爱真的是自己跟自己的一场较量,除了对方合不合适之外,就看自己是否勇敢先跨出一步并且坚持下去。
心痛,是因为付出却没得到相应的回报,那就把自己曾经的付出看成是一种施舍吧,接受你施舍的人不管此时在不在你身边,相信她/他到某个时候总会被你曾经的施舍感动的。
一个人一生也该激情地投入爱一回,哪怕会受伤,因为生活还是充满未知数,谁知道在哪个车站又上来个人,而他/她将改写自己的人生。
爱也需要学习和总结经验的,谁生下来就会爱,此路不通另开别道,反正条条道路通罗马,这跟心里的意志成正比,你觉得想要更多幸福，你就会找出更多途径努力力往幸福那靠拢。
在两性相处中，爱他/她时，你就觉得他/她非常的好，情人眼里出西施嘛。不能再爱时，看到的缺点比优点多，其实他/她本来就是那样的，只不过是你的心态改变而已。你喜欢的不一定适合你；适合你，在你和他/她相处中你会感到开心快乐，开心快乐了你最后肯定也会喜欢。看山是山，看山不是山，看山还是山。
The Feeling About Love
(By Zhang Xinyue)
It would be a very painful thing to make simple things complicated, it is just like that sentence ---Why people feel suffering? It lies in their pursuit of the wrong things.
If you love a person, you really hope that he/she would be happy. If he/she isn’t happy, it would be unhappy to get together with him/her. If he/she doesn t deserve your love, he/she will be sorry and get some love lessons after your leaving; if he/she ought to deserve it, but he/she already has his/her lover, then please wish him/her well. Since you love a person indeed, you would like him / her to be happy!
It doesn t matter to be thin, fat , pretty or ugly, as you are the unique in the eyes of your lover. And for the love from your lover , you will try to be more perfect.
In fact, you can experience the feeling whether a person loves you or not, just follow your heart! It s also necessary to learn how to love, study it hard and then practice it well. At the time you get old and rethink it, you can reexperience the happy hours again!
Everyone has strongpoints and nobody doesn't like them, but only the one who truly loves you can tolerate your shortcomings.
You will be a little afraid of your love when you really fall in it. But maybe because of this "fears", another exciting feeling can be added on the relation between you and your lover and it will make your relation more active.
In fact, falling in love is a trial between you and yourself,excepet the one you love doesn't fit you,it depends on whether you can bravely stirde first and hold the line.
Heartache is the reason that you pay out but not gain the relevant return. Just regard what your ever paid as a kind of bounty,whenever the one you paid for is on your side or not,you shuld believe that he/she would be moved by what you ever paid sometime.
A man should fall in love with someone passionfully at least once in his/her life, whatever he/she will hurt from it.There are always unknown happenings in our life,no one knows who will get on your bus at any your life bus stations and he/she will rewrite your life.
We also need to learn how to love and sum up the experiences .No one knows what's love when he/she was born.We can find other ways to arrive our destination if the one that we are walking on isn't the right one to us.All roads lead to Rome.This is directly proportional to the will from your heart, if you'd like to gain more happinesses,you will try your best to find more ways to be closer them.
When you mix in opposite sex, if you love him or her, you would think he or she is extremely well, the reason is beauty lies in the lover's eyes. If you can't love him/her any more, you would see more his/her shortcoming than strongpoint. In fact, he or she is originally like in that way, only because of your changing minds to him/her. The person you like may not be suitable for you.The one who is suitable for you, you would feel happy when you get along with him or her,if you feel happy , eventually you would fall into love with him or her. To see the mountain at the first time,the mountain is the mountain;to see it at the second time,it is not like what it looks; and to see it at the third time,it is still like itself.
